Crave
Real
Intimacy?

Intimacy, Sex & Relationship Coaching

for Couples and Individuals

Who Want Deep Connection and Erotic Aliveness, Either Again or at a Whole New Level!

Couples
Individuals

Does this sound like you?

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Here you are after a major break up and in a new relationship, but you're terrified of repeating the same mistakes—and old patterns from your marriage keep showing up.

Desire and intimacy feel complicated—shame from your marriage, mismatched libidos, body image issues, or just the logistics of "when kids are at their other parent's house" make sex feel mechanical or rare.

You're constantly comparing—your new partner to your ex, this relationship to your marriage, wondering if you're settling or if this is as good as it gets.

You avoid hard conversations because conflict in your marriage led to rage, silent treatment, or divorce—and you're terrified of triggering that again.

Your ex-partner's interference poisons your peace—their texts, their chaos, their presence in your life through co-parenting affects your new relationship in ways you hate.

Blended family chaos is killing your intimacy—custody schedules, ex-partner drama, guilt about prioritizing your relationship over kids, and zero privacy make passion feel impossible.

You struggle to trust your own judgment after a relationship that fell short of what you truly needed. You wonder: “What if I’m missing the signs again? What if history repeats itself?”

Now, imagine what's possible...

✨ You recognize old patterns before they destroy your new relationship—and you have the tools to break them in real-time.

✨ Intimacy feels alive again—passionate, playful, and deeply connected, despite the complexity of schedules, kids, and past wounds.

✨ You communicate openly about sex and desire—without shame, shutdown, or fear of rejection.

✨ Blended family life doesn't kill your intimacy—you protect your time together, set boundaries with exes, without feeling your are choosing one over the other

✨ Your ex-partner's chaos doesn't poison your relationship—you have boundaries, communication strategies, and resilience to keep their drama from bleeding into your peace.

✨ You trust yourself and your partner—you've learned to spot healthy vs. toxic dynamics, and you're building something solid with wisdom from the past.

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Our Featured Programs

Couples Intimacy Lab

Intimacy, Sex and Relationship Coaching for Couples

Private 2-on-2 Coaching 

This isn't necessarily about fixing what's wrong—it's about amplifying what's right. We co-coach couples in new relationships after divorce or major break ups who are ready to turn earned wisdom into something extraordinary. Whether you're navigating trust, blended family dynamics, ex-partner stress, desire, or old patterns—we help you enhance, deepen, and expand your relationship into one that's emotionally safe, erotically alive, and built to last.

Why two coaches? Because we're a couple too. Both divorced. Both rebuilding. We bring lived experience, professional training, and the unique power of modeling what we teach.

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Personal Intimacy Experience

Intimacy, Sex and Relationship Coaching for Individuals

Private 1-on-1 Coaching 

You're divorced or out of a long-term relationship and dating (or preparing to)—and you refuse to bring the same patterns, fears, or mistakes into your next relationship.

We help you rebuild trust in yourself, develop intimacy skills, work through past relationship wounds, and learn to recognize healthy dynamics so you choose differently this time.

Whether you're working through fear of choosing wrong again, sexual shame, comparison to your ex, or just learning to set boundaries—this is your space to rebuild from the inside out.

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Group Coaching Workshops

Intimacy & Connection Workshops for Couples Wanting Aliveness!

Small Groups, Virtual & In-Person

You're not the only couple navigating this.

Maybe you are married and missing that spark, that physical fire. Maybe you are divorced and in a new relationship and want to do it “better” this time. Or maybe you are just in a serious relationship and want to do it “right” from the beginning.

What if you could learn alongside other couples who GET IT?

Our Group Coaching Workshops bring together couples in new relationships who refuse to settle for "good enough" and are committed to building something extraordinary this time.

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Meet Our Coaches

Our Story: Why We Get It

We're both divorced. We're partners in life. And we coach what we're actively living.

We know what it's like to:

  • Catch old patterns before they cement
  • Deal with ex-partner stress without letting it poison our connection
  • Create erotic aliveness despite custody schedules, logistics, and past wounds
  • Repair quickly instead of repeating the conflict patterns from our marriages
  • Choose extraordinary connection with wisdom from the past
  • Navigate blended family chaos while protecting intimacy
  • Rebuild trust in ourselves and each other

Our relationship isn't perfect. It's conscious. And that's exactly what we teach.

Our Coaching Qualifications

Paula and Jason have a combined 14 years of professional coaching experience with advanced training and certifications:

✅ 4,000+ coaching hours – Professional Certified Coaches with the International Coaching Federation (ICF)
 ✅ Somatica Institute – Sex and Relationship Coaches with specialization in Couples Intimacy Coaching
 ✅ Co-Active Training Institute (CTI) – Life Certified and Leadership Coaches
 ✅ Specialized training in nervous system healing, attachment trauma, and intimacy after divorce

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My relationship story:

I met my now ex-husband in college and fell deeply in love. We married within four years, and I moved to the U.S. Early on, small things bothered me, but I assumed love would smooth them out.

After stepping away from work to raise our two kids, those "little things" grew—but we were best friends, so I kept going. What I didn't see was how we were slowly drifting apart. We avoided hard conversations. Emotional and physical intimacy faded, eventually leading to no sex at all.

In 2017, I began investing in myself—my growth, self-awareness, and healing. Now I'm in a relationship where I'm learning to build differently—with communication, embodied desire, and the courage to address issues before they become distance. 

More about me: 

  • Additional specializations: working with couples, clients who have sexual dysfunctions, clients who are aging
  • Additional certification in Neuroscience, Consciousness and Transformational Coaching
  • Engineering degree, former stay-at-home mom of two (now adult) children
  • Classical amateur pianist
  • Born and raised in São Paulo, Brazil; living in Dallas since 1999
  • In the moment splitting time between Dallas (kids) and Chicago (Jason)

Book a 30 minute strategy call with Paula HERE

Email Paula
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Jason

My relationship story: 

I met my now ex-wife just after high school and believed it was love at first sight—despite long distance and early signs of emotional and physical intimacy challenges. I assumed marriage would fix them. It didn't.

Repeated rejection led me to bury my desires. I became a people-pleaser to avoid conflict. After 23 years, my unmet needs and unhealed childhood wounds surfaced. In 2018, I realized I wasn't happy. Five more years of deep therapy and self-growth helped me accept the marriage was over.

Now I'm building a relationship where I say what I need, set boundaries, and choose aliveness over comfort. It's not easy—but it's real.

More about me: 

  • Additional specializations: working with couples, clients who have sexual dysfunctions, individuals who are learning the dating game
  • 4 years of experience as a business mindset coach
  • Training in dreamwork, remote viewing, shamanic journeying, and psychic realms
  • Graphic design degree, entrepreneurial ventures in design and real estate
  • Father of an adult son
  • Born in the U.S., currently living as a Nomad with a home-base in Chicago
  • Splitting time between Chicago, Miami and Dallas with Paula

Book a 30 minute strategy call with Jason HERE

Email Jason
We're not here because we have it all figured out. We're here because we're doing the work—just like you.
And we're damn good at helping others do it too. 💙
 
 
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